Steering Clear of ‘That Place.’
Weeping and gnashing my teeth is something I hope to avoid in the future.
Not just because it sounds like an unpleasant situation to me, but because Jesus Christ Himself warned His disciples [at least] seven times that this condition would be the plight of the wicked, the faithless and those who commit lawlessness. [see: Matt. 8:12, 13:42, 13:50, 22:13, 24:51, 25:30; Lk. 13:28]
However, these Gospel texts clearly illustrate that His warnings were spoken for the benefit of those who belonged to Him, not those who rejected Him.
Think about that.
Even as one who has been saved [or redeemed] by God’s grace, I’m not immune to suffering agonizing remorse one day for any of my unrepentant conduct in this age.
[What does it mean to be ‘redeemed?’ see: Different fruit, Same Good News.]
What’s interesting, though, is that the narrative in each of these passages listed above concludes with the translated adverbial phrase “in that place,” indicating a specific location where all the weeping and gnashing is destined to occur when Christ’s thousand year reign begins upon His return to the Earth.
[Greek: ἐκεῖ: (ê-kãy) there, in that place; there, to that place]
That means that, depending upon which of Jesus’ parables I’m reading, “in that place,” could be “outer darkness,” or “a furnace of fire,” or even “a place with the hypocrites.” But I can’t find any way to consolidate these places into a common venue.
On the other hand, there are some doctrinal conclusions I can draw from these texts:
- First and foremost, my redeemed state doesn’t exempt me from accountable conduct before the Lord and other men.
- The Biblical context of weeping and the gnashing of teeth implies self-imposed regret, not a direct response to pain inflicted externally.
- None of these places Jesus talked about, either alone or in combination with the others, represent a setting some of Christ’s people choose to call “Hell.” The Bible itself reveals that a just, loving God will never torture perpetually, but He will allow us to perish.
Any sermon suggesting that there can be behavioral consequences for Christ’s people in the coming age is likely to be a hard sell for building and maintaining membership in our congregations. The financial risks seem to prohibit such candor when communicating the word of God.
So, if His disciple doesn’t want to find himself “in that place,” someday, maybe he should place himself around a table with other Gospel-hungry men now and start studying the Bible.
It’s never too late.
“Have you understood all these things?” They said to Him, “Yes.” [Matt. 13:51]

Last Updated: October 17, 2024 by cjournalme Leave a Comment
A Series of Fortunate Events
What I’m not aware of sometimes comes back to bite me.
But I’ve also learned that unintended consequences don’t always have to be bad. They can even be a blessing.
In the apostle Paul’s first letter to the church of God which [was] at Corinth, he unveiled a remarkable outcome of being set apart to God for those bound by the marriage covenant.
“For the unbelieving husband has been sanctified through his wife, and the unbelieving wife has been sanctified through her believing husband, for otherwise your children are unclean, but now they are holy… For how do you know, O wife, whether you shall save your husband? Or how do you know, O husband, whether you shall save your wife?” [1Cor. 7:14,16] [my emphasis]
[σῴζω: (sō’-zō) to save in regard to Christian salvation; save, rescue, deliver, keep safe, preserve, cure, make well]
[ἁγιάζω: (hâ-gee-âh’-zō) to set apart as sacred to God; make holy or sanctify, consecrate; regard as sacred; purify, cleanse]
It’s interesting that Paul indicated these sentences to be his opinion as opposed to being a revelation from Christ, something he noted in the previous sentence. But that shouldn’t discount the weight of his words. He seems to be suggesting that a bond of mutual purity is just one of the many things the marriage covenant is intended to establish, and that honoring that commitment is, in fact, one avenue to sanctification in itself.
So, do I have the means to actually keep my wife clean? Not necessarily. But I can keep my marriage intact simply by guarding it. And by doing that, I’m preserving her purity and my children’s as well. That’s regarding them as sacred [see: ἁγιάζω above].
However, I’ve learned that becoming holy isn’t a spectator sport. The Spirit sets me apart as I also set myself and my family apart.
It’s a partnership.
To fully grasp how I, as a believing husband, should be able to accomplish this purification process in the sight of God, I must understand the relational paradigm of the family—and particularly how a husband and wife should model themselves after Christ and His church. [see: Eph. 5:25-27; 1Cor. 11:3, 7]
[How can I be like Christ in my marriage? see: A Recipe for Confusion]
Being a Godly father and husband is a tough job. The foundations of our families must be laid, built upon and guarded by holy [see: ἁγιάζω above] husbands in order to keep their families clean, thereby saving them [see σῴζω above] from contamination by the world.
Fathers, don’t let the world diminish your role as a sanctifier!