Keeping Your Prayers Intact

I’m a thoroughly foolish but repentant man.

While I don’t flaunt the mistakes I’ve made, I rarely seek occasion to conceal them. But what I never used to understand is that my conduct had much to do with the potency of my prayers.

In his letter to those who [had] received a faith of the same kind as [his], the apostle Peter revealed this truth as a real stumbling block for husbands:

“You husbands in the same way, live with your wives in an understanding way, as with someone weaker, since she is a woman; and show her honor as a fellow heir of the grace of life, so that your prayers will not be hindered. [2Pet. 3:7] [my emphasis]

Yet the worldly man rejects this conditional statement.

After all, isn’t it enough spending a lifetime trying to understand the female mind without being penalized for it too? And indeed, there was a time when I would’ve taken Peter’s words to heart so that the Lord would provide me with that new bass boat I’d been praying for…

But it never occurred to me to read the Bible. So I was satisfied enough to assume that it just wasn’t in the cards for me, since I probably didn’t consider praying to be that effective anyway. It was something you did at “church” or Thanksgiving—or when you were in a jam.

What’s remarkable to me about this passage isn’t just that it demonstrates the power of prayer. It also implies the act of praying to be an instinctive, essential habit in the course of daily living. It’s presented as a type of reflexive sustenance not unlike eating or sleeping.

You gotta have it. If you don’t, you’re gonna be in trouble.

Prayers were never intended to simply fill the voids in my life. They are, rather, instruments of my faith, able to help anticipate along with the Spirit “…everything [I need] pertaining to life and godliness, through the true knowledge of Him who called [me] by His own glory and excellence.” [2Pet. 1:3]

There are caveats to offering up effective prayers.

The Bible tells us about them.

“Therefore, confess your sins to one another, and pray for one another so that you may be healed. The effective prayer of a righteous man can accomplish much.” [Ja. 5:16]

Transcending the Transgender Drivel

Any suggestion that gender can be exchanged or re-formulated breaches the limits of sanity.

Everyone in his right mind knows this. As a logical, moral people, we know we shouldn’t even be having conversations about something so preposterous. The real issue, then, is that not everyone is in his right mind.

[How do people become callused to God’s truth? see: Rom. 1:18-32]

Fortunately, this isn’t just my opinion. Gender is actually a Biblical concept. That means God first created sexual distinction and then He defined the differences. These differences didn’t emerge randomly or evolve over a period of time.

For this reason, gender cannot be correctly understood or applied outside of a Scriptural context. In the International Council on Gender Studies’ publication, Five Aspects of Man, the groundwork upon which transgenderism is built can be described from a Biblical perspective:

It is “…the direct result of feminism and homosexuality built on the foundational sins of idolatry and autonomy.”

If a man doesn’t understand why God created him, then he’s going to build his life around something other than Him by creating idols for himself. The result is that everything and everyone connected to his Biblically mandated authority and guardianship begins to fall apart.

Because a wife and children are responders, they learn to reject the husband’s/father’s authority in the same way that he rejects God’s authority. And so begins the cycle of delusion and depravity—a generational devaluation of the created order which was originally proclaimed to be “good.”

And while autonomy isn’t always a bad dog, the context here suggests an attitude completely free from external control or influence—something clearly incompatible with being a disciple of Jesus Christ. The result is that autonomous behavior simply becomes a warm-up act, setting the stage for just about any form of decadence to perform.

Sexual deviance is now a rockstar singing its final song. With razor edges, it’s shredding the remaining remnant of a great moral fabric under which free people once shrouded themselves.

How long will we allow the show to go on?

It’s a real heart-breaker.

What Would Jesus Do?

Some might recall a popular catchphrase of the 70’s: “Hey man, WWJD?” It was an acronym for “What would Jesus do?”

Though it was seriously overworked, it was often an effective means of administering either encouragement or shame. It eventually became versatile enough to be used solemnly or with levity. The interesting thing was that sometimes it actually worked.

After all, Jesus Christ was a paradigm of integrity for His people, wasn’t He?

But I used to wonder how anyone could retain his dignity and allow himself to be humiliated and tortured at the same time. Common sense seems to suggest that integrity not worth defending can hardly be considered to exist in the first place.

So what did Jesus do?

He offered Himself up for slaughter yet maintained the dignity He deserved. But did He accomplish this simply because He was God—being the only One able to legitimately execute this particular task of Biblical prophecy and, as a result, live again to tell about it?

If that were true, what would’ve been the point?

I believe He chose to suffer as a man for more reasons than I can understand. But I’m also convinced that, by suffering as a result of true obedience, He demonstrated the essence of dignity rather than absence of it.

I can even conclude that, if my integrity isn’t in tact, then perhaps my ability to obey is compromised as well.

But then, I could strive to be like the Person of Jesus.

Though He suffered pain like any other man would, He chose not to focus on it. As a man, He had the capacity to hate those persecuting Him because it was unjust. But He chose not to.

The things He did—or didn’t do, weren’t necessarily a model for me to follow in every circumstance.

But His reasons were. And His choices paid for my freedom to make the right ones.

That’s what Jesus did.

Sowing Spiritual Capital

I’d like to think I’ve been the one who chose what I did with my life.

But when I look back, that’s not completely true. Just like everybody else, I have specific needs, desires, skills and talents. So, it follows that I’ve learned to focus on the things which sustain me—the skills and talents.

The thing is, I had to discover some of the things I can do well.

Because I didn’t know I could do them until that happened. When I was a kid, I knew that I had predominant gross motor skills. I realized that by comparing what I did with others. As a result, I chose to develop my talents and profit from it.

But, eventually, the Lord got my attention. I often say that He took hold of me by the ears and wouldn’t let go. That made it impossible to unhear what He said. And I’m grateful that I couldn’t because He showed me that I could do His work in ways I never imagined.

I also learned not to waste any time getting started. [see: Matt. 25:14-46]

His gifts to me were extraordinary—precious gems hidden in plan sight, revealed to me as spiritual capital, waiting to be invested for His purposes. From then on, I began to sow my seeds in a different field.

The irony of finding and developing spiritual gifts is that we often don’t become aware of them until we’re mature enough to develop them in a way that glorifies God.

But then, there’s a joy that accompanies authentic servanthood—the same joy that fueled the hearts of Abraham, Moses and the prophets Samuel and Isaiah:

“Here I am, Lord!”

So, leave no stone unturned seeking the gifts God has prepared for you. They don’t always fall in your lap. Define them, and seek to perfect them. Prepare yourself by honing the skills you already have and sharpening your tools. Then all you need to do is show up.

I guarantee He’ll put you to work.

The Highest Hurdle of Belief

I don’t focus much on evangelism.

It’s a term often misused and exploited, so there’s always plenty of it to go around. I choose rather to concentrate on providing something that’s in short supply—that is, encouragement for other men to persevere as faithful disciples of Jesus Christ.

[μαθητής (mâ-thā-tās) a disciple, pupil, learner]

But I also find myself around folks I know and love who are seeking to make some kind of sense out of their lives. They have, for the most part, no problem accepting the idea of a Power greater than themselves, yet they’re unable to perceive that Power from a Biblical perspective.

Consequently, they’re not able to distinguish the essence of a Perfect Creator with that their own.

I once overheard someone say that she’s looking for a religion that “accepts gays.” That seems like an ambiguous statement. If she were to seek a group of people willing to worship and have fellowship with another who’s willing to repent from homosexual conduct, then a congregation of faithful, Biblically literate disciples of Christ would seem to be the ticket. Their love, patience and encouragement to overcome perversion through the indwelling power of God’s Spirit would help provide the means to do that.

On the other hand, if she’s looking for a religion that merely accepts homosexuality as valid behavior, then the odds are against her, because even the most salable of the world’s false religions reject sexual depravity.

The latter typifies a mind that cannot credibly discern the intrinsic nature of the Living God. If I’m not able to understand what it actually means for Him to exist in perfection, I’ll never be able to accept Him in that unique capacity. Perfection would merely be what I consider it to be.

John’s gospel account records Jesus’ words to the Jews and later to His disciples:

“No one can come to Me unless the Father who sent Me draws him, and I will raise him up on the last day. It is written in the prophets, ‘And they shall all be taught of God.’ Everyone who has heard and learned from the Father, comes to Me.” [John 6:44-45, repeated also in vs. 65]

This passage confirms God’s sovereign ability to reveal Himself at will. But it’s also evidence that an imperfect heart is capable of being convinced that there is indeed a flawless Designer—One who is forever seeking to draw the lives of those He personally devised back to Himself.

If I can’t recognize the true character of God, then I’m like a dog that habitually chases its tail, perhaps thinking intuitively that something useful will come out of it.

“For it was fitting for Him, for Whom are all things, and through Whom are all things, in bringing many sons to glory, to perfect the author of their salvation through sufferings.” [Heb. 2:10]

My Halfway House

It wasn’t actually a physical place, but I spent a lot of time there.  

Even though I knew a certain level of responsibility was expected from me, I was convinced I was a work in progress, and that, eventually, I’d gain the maturity and insight needed to live fully accountable to Him.

But nobody seemed to be in a hurry for that to happen. 

And I must confess that I still spend a night there on occasion.  But, in hindsight, I’m able to see what made me a parolee for so long.  It was an insatiable desire to have my cake and eat it too.

I was hell-bent on getting what I deserved. 

For much of my adult life, I was aware of a spiritual struggle going on inside me.  Godliness was a genuine goal, but I couldn’t find a way to give up my love for the world and all that was in it.  And, unfortunately, I wasn’t alone.  I had a massive support system in that house.  If anyone tried to hold me accountable for my behavior or my speech, there was always someone willing to plead my case.  I never even had to ask for it. 

And, of course, I was always obliged to reciprocate. 

But the Lord was my parole officer, and, after a while, He did indeed give me what I deserved.  He handed me over to the duplicitous lifestyle I couldn’t seem to get enough of.

As a result, my fence sitting went from a being frequent passion to an insufferable habit. Eventually though, I discovered the reason why fences are built, and it wasn’t for people to sit on.

I also discovered that I actually could walk consistently on the right side of them.

My God is a patient, powerful and compassionate God.  

That’s a fact. 

The Cup of a Solemn, Discerning Man

I couldn’t help notice the young man squirming impatiently in the pew.

It continued until the sacraments of The Lord’s Supper ritual were eventually distributed to him and the rest of us present in the local congregation. But then, having partaken of the bread and juice, he flew the coop.

I had to assume he thought participating in Christian communion was a crucial act of self-preservation in itself. But what caught my attention was that, regardless of what he might have thought it meant, he took it very seriously.

And that’s important.

Because sincerity was the focus of the apostle Paul’s letter to the church of God which [was] at Corinth when he recounted to them the significance of Jesus Christ’s covenantal supper with His disciples. [see: Matt. 26:26-28]

So, what was Paul trying to get across to the congregations whenever they would come together to share The Lord’s Supper? [see: 1Cor. 11:23-33]

I would think that taking the sacraments “…in remembrance of Christ” would be at the top of the list. [vss. 24-25] It seems easy enough. But to seriously consider [or remember] what Jesus did and what happened to Him as a result is both unsettling and humbling.

Having repeated Jesus’ words, Paul wrote:

For as often as you eat this bread and drink the cup, you proclaim the Lord’s death until He comes.” [vs. 26]

[καταγγέλλω: (kâ-tân-gê’-lō) proclaim, make known, preach, teach, advocate]

I used to unwittingly limit the full context of this sentence. Sure, every time I took communion, I was declaring that Jesus died on the cross and that He’s coming back again. Right?

But I’m also saying something more profound.

By “proclaiming” His death, I’m demonstrating to the world my intention to die also to the power of sin. That’s making a serious statement.

But Paul mentioned something else worth repeating:

“Therefore whoever eats the bread or drinks the cup of the Lord in an unworthy manner, shall be guilty of the body and the blood of the Lord.” [1Cor. 11:27] [my emphasis]

[ἀναξίως: adverb, (â-nâck-sî’-ōs) in an unworthy, improper or careless manner]

So what would make a man unworthy to take communion? I’m certainly not qualified to say, but I can learn how to make that determination about myself. Paul had some suggestions:

“But let [a] man examine himself, and in so doing, let him [decide whether to] eat of the bread and drink of the cup. For the one eating and drinking does [indeed] eat and drink judgment to himself if he does not discern the body correctly. For this reason, many among you are weak and sick, and many die. But, if we were discerning ourselves correctly, we would not be [in the process of] being judged. [1Cor. 11: 28-31] [my emphasis]

[δοκιμάζω: (dô-kî-mâ’-zō) test, examine interpret, discern, discover, approve, prove, demonstrate]

It appears that some level of prayerful introspection is necessary for any disciple of Jesus Christ to be able to demonstrate to Him [and to himself] that he is in fact worthy of sharing in The Lord’s Supper.

But whatever might make him unworthy of actually partaking of these sacraments is for him alone to decide.

According to Paul, our Lord demands us to solemnly qualify ourselves for the occasion of Holy communion. If I can see that I’m not able to do that, I might want to pass on the bread and grape juice that day.

If I don’t, then perhaps I should get serious about accepting the consequences.

The Freeman’s Intuition

Human freedom has always been achieved by choice.

But that’s not something that’s recently been disclosed in a New York Times Best Seller paperback. These pathetic cycles from enslavement into liberation and back into bondage over the past 6000 years are evident to anyone willing to read history.

The pagan world consistently separates any belief concerning religious freedom from that of civic freedom, envisioning the two as oil and water. On the other hand, I’m convinced that every faithful disciple of Jesus Christ perceives freedom as possessions in aggregate rather than in categories.

He knows that some measure of moral liberty must prevail in every box he creates for himselfotherwise he isn’t really free.

By reading the Bible, he can discover a common thread of thought that’s woven throughout all the texts: Men who eventually become aware of their weakness and depravity are summarily drawn to a mindset that seeks to rightfully abolish any form of bondage that might otherwise enslave them.

For them, freedom is a state of mind—a way of life.

The Lord God created human beings in His own image that He might offer them the choice of whether or not to seek fellowship with Him. As a consequence, their freedom to choose that fellowship doesn’t appear to be optional. They either accept it or reject it.

But only because of Christ’s death is the foundation for all forms of freedom established.

Yet, somehow we’ve been pursuaded that the freedom that Jesus offered to mankind isn’t relevant to every aspect of His disciples’ lives. A sermon preached in a registered [501c-3] congregation today is likely to suggest that “Jesus didn’t get into politics.” But, in fact, Jesus Christ was the most “politically” polarizing force that ever walked on the Earth.

[(political: of or relating to government, a government, or the conduct of government) The Merriam Webster Dictionary also defines “politic” as an adjective, suggesting such synonyms as advisable, desirable, expedient, judicious, prudent, tactical and wise.] [see also: Isa. 9:6]

He did indeed tell the Pharisees to give Caesar back his coins [Matt. 22: 17-22]. But I’d do well not to read too much into that. Even though indentured servitude was [and is] sometimes a circumstance to endure, Jesus never encouraged His disciples to willfully submit to unrighteous rule.

It seems to me that my freedom from the bondage of sin because of Christ should be the basis upon which I seek to liberate myself from anything that tries to subjugate me.

Though a slave to Him, I am otherwise created as a sovereign in my responsibility of self-determination.

Sound familiar?

“It was for freedom that Christ set us free; therefore keep standing firm and do not be subject again to a yoke of slavery.” [Gal. 5:1]

Not Fearing is God-Fearing

There’s an innocent four-letter word that must always be defined by context.

It can be used to suggest either apprehension or deep respect. But I can’t use ’em both ways at the same time. For how can I truly be afraid of something I hold in the highest regard? After all, angst is nothing more than a mental invention which can hardly exist in the domain of what is known to be true, honorable, right, pure, lovely and admirable. [Phil. 4:8]

So, is this word fear a manipulator of the unbelieving heart, or is it the other way around?

There seems to be plenty of evidence for both. But one thing is certain: I’m not fearing God as the Holy King of this universe if I’m not trusting His promises, but instead allowing myself to be guided by the common fears of unbelievers.

“You [all] who fear the Lord, trust in the Lord. He is their help and their shield.” [Psa. 115:11]

The Biblical patriarchs and Old Testament authors were consistently writing and speaking about “…the fear of the Lord.” While this Hebrew word יָרֵא [(yare) meaning to fear] could also describe dread and anxiety, it was more commonly used to represent an attitude of unfettered reverence to the Lord God.

What’s interesting though is how often the positive results of Godly fear are illustrated to the reader, particularly in the Psalms of King David:

Who is the man who fears the Lord? He will instruct him in the way he should choose. His soul will abide in prosperity, and his descendants will inherit the land. The counsel of the Lord is for those who fear Him, and He will make them know His covenant. [the words of King David in Psa. 25:12-14]

This is one of the most revealing and encouraging passages of Scripture to me. Some translations even use the word “secret” instead of “counsel.” Either way, the promise of intimacy, security and rewards is assured to the man who exchanges his common worldly fears for trust and reverence [or Godly fear] in his Creator.

Who is “the man?” What are all the magnificent effects of him choosing to do this!?

“The Lord is near to all who call upon Him, to all who call upon Him in truth. He will fulfill the desire of those who fear Him. He will also hear their cry and will save them.” [the words of King David in Psa. 145:18-19] my emphasis]

Godly fear doesn’t define an obsolete mid-eastern mindset that fizzled out somewhere between the Ancient Jewish writings and the New Covenant established by Jesus Christ.

It does, rather, demonstrate that one more element of the Lord God’s good news is still available for men who have ears to hear.

“For as high as the heavens are above the earth, so great is His lovingkindness toward those who fear Him.
As far as the east is from the west, so far has He removed our transgressions from us. Just as a father has compassion on his children, so the Lord has compassion on those who fear Him.”
[the words of King David in Psa. 103:11-13]

The Almighty and the Almighty Dollar

I used to believe that prosperity and discipleship in Christ were incompatible.

But, at the same time, I could never square this idea with all the personal wealth-protecting ordinances the Lord God established for His people Israel in the ancient writings of Leviticus and Deuteronomy.

Not only that, I couldn’t find any evidence in the Bible that Jesus Christ ever condemned any type of legitimate entrepreneurial venture. Instead, He often described different types of money making scenarios in the parables He spoke—all told with the premise that personal profit was a good, desirable thing!

And it would seem absurd to suggest that His New Covenant challenged the very idea of capitalism simply because the early church He established was sustained by a system of monetary communalism. [Ac. 2:42-47] These specific “acts” of the first apostles certainly exist as a paradigm for our congregations even today, however, nothing prohibited them [or prohibits me] from creating and keeping wealth.  

Their combined decision to share with one another was voluntary.

Consider also that the snake oil salesmen peddling the “prosperity gospel” today are actually nothing new. [see: Phil. 1:15-17; 2Tim. 4:1-4] The only difference is they’re accumulating Gulfstream jets and real estate rather than camels and precious metals.

But they’ve all given the desire to create wealth a bad name.

And it’s for that reason that I appeal to every disciple of Jesus Christ to embrace the Scriptural principle that seeking personal gain doesn’t always have to clash with the Lord’s expectations, but can often be an integral part of them. And perhaps the key to a achieving financial security in this age is to simply not focus too much on it!

While poverty is all too often a consequence of Biblical obedience and suffering, Jesus never suggested it to be an emblem of virtue outside of those parameters. But the badge of poverty has become an effective signaling tool utilized in the utopian progressive agenda today.

So, it seems that profit should be both a subtle goal and a burning ambition.

As disciples of Jesus Christ, we seek it as a natural consequence of our temporal objectives, but as an unfathomable promise to be realized in the age to come!